Dating and Relationship Advice

Other than Scorpios (like me), Geminis receive the most criticism out of all the zodiac signs. And I’ll come out and say it: I don’t think it’s deserved. Some of the people closest to me — including my girlfriend — are Geminis, and they're amazing people full of love and humor. They’re not perfect, of course. They can be contradictory, flighty, and sarcastic, but they’re not always the two-faced people they’re made out to be.

For a firsthand perspective on what dating a Gemini woman is like, check out some qualities I've noticed.

She’s a compassionate listener

Full of affection and empathy, a Gemini woman is an amazing listener who wants to help. She cares about how you’re doing and will respond to your pain in considerate ways.

I’ve seen my girlfriend act that way many times. She patiently lets me vent my frustrations, thoughts, and body image struggles. She often asks, “How can I help?” and reminds me she loves me. She hurts when I hurt, and she doesn’t ever want me to be in pain.

She can adapt

The idea that Geminis are “two-faced” isn’t completely wrong — it just captures the wrong connotation. A more accurate word is adaptable. Geminis can be quiet and loud. Introverts and extroverts. They can easily judge a situation and fit right into it.

I appreciate this quality in my girlfriend. She won’t talk your ear off, but she can hold an interesting, intelligent conversation. She knows how to act in social settings. She can also adapt to my changing moods, which is incredibly helpful.

She falls in love fast

In romantic relationships, Gemini women wear their hearts on their sleeves. They’re less likely to hide their feelings about you or play games. They appreciate other people and commit to them wholeheartedly.

As someone who falls in love quickly, I’m thankful my Gemini girlfriend is the same way. I’ve had many casual relationships where I felt as though I liked the other person more than they liked me, and I don’t have to worry about that with her. We share our love for each other freely and often, and I feel so loved and comfortable with her.

She’s down to learn and try new things

Gemini women are intelligent and curious. They love to explore, go on adventures, and learn new things. They wonder about all the world has to offer, and they're down to try new things.

One example is when my volleyball team was short a player. While my girlfriend had never played before, she was ready to join us and do her best. She asked questions, helped however she could, and didn’t hold back.

She’ll stay faithful to you

Geminis are dedicated, loyal partners. Once they fall in love with you, they’ll stick with you. They’re faithful both to your relationship and to your well-being, and are always eager to help.

That’s one quality I love most in my girlfriend — I never have to worry about her not loving me or cheating on me. She shows me how much she loves me daily and I know she won’t leave. She’s my person and I’m hers.