Dating and Relationship Advice

Let’s be real, there's no such thing as a perfect relationship. But there is a relationship that's perfect for you and your needs. The challenge, of course, is finding it!

If you’ve just been sitting back and waiting for the perfect relationship to find you, then you’ve been approaching the situation all wrong. You need to take matters in your own hands. Read on to find out how to manifest a soulmate connection that energizes you.

Know exactly what you want

Before manifesting, it's important to know exactly what you want. This makes it easier to shed the deadweight from the pool of potential lovers. It also helps you stay focused and deters you from settling for a relationship you are not fully satisfied with.

A good practice when trying to manifest anything is to put it into words. Grab a journal and make a list of everything you desire from a relationship and a partner. Qualities such as kindness and diligence are a good start, but try getting more specific. The more detail, the better! After you’re done, post the list somewhere that’s visible to you every day so you’re constantly reminded of what you’re looking for.

Stay open

A lot of us miss opportunities because we are not open to them. That’s why it’s essential to stay open and aware of the world around you.

Being mindful and present will allow opportunities to present themselves clearly. It will also help you to determine whether something is right for you.

Be grateful and emanate positive energy

Showing gratitude for what the universe gives you is vital to receiving more gifts. Think about it: being gracious is a way of saying "thank you" for the opportunities and blessings you have received, which will ultimately lead to more.

In our universe, positivity is met with positivity. Or in other words, positive energy attracts positive energy! Every day when you wake up, think positive thoughts and spread that positivity to everyone you encounter. This energy will attract the right people into your circle and help you manifest your perfect relationship.

Take action

Having a plan is never a bad idea. Writing out an action plan can help speed up the process of manifestation. The question you should ask yourself is: what do I have to do to get the relationship I desire?

Once you start thinking about that question, you'll begin to discover simple steps to achieving your goal. For example, if you want a relationship with someone who shares your love of music, maybe you will start going to concerts more regularly. In general it’s important to start conversations and make yourself available.

With these steps, you'll have your perfect relationship in no time!